LifestyleFashionista_SMKA's Attitude...Where Are They Heading To...??
This morning was my second times attending SMKADG public assembly that being held once in two weeks... For the second times experienced the school's public assembly as a teacher (...only just a replacement teacher for 45 days...) and I also lost count on how many school's public assembly datz I'd been attended in my life especially in secondary school which was my beloved SHAMS (...also not forgotten SKBP, SKB and SKCB...), I still wonder and thinking why are they acting like datz...
The real things datz I mean is the attitude of the students especially our Malay students who confessed that they are Muslims, are not react like they are really a Muslim especially when attending the public and formal assembly... As a student in a school, either you are Malay who is a Muslim, or Chinese who is a Buddhist, or Indian who is a Hindu, or you are Christian, you are supposedly and being asked in any public or formal occasions to give full attention to the persons who are talking or giving any speeches and advises in front of all of you... You are absolutely not being allowed to talk or make any noises especially when the program had started...
But in the real world nowadays, since I'd been selected to be a school prefect from 1992 till 1996 and 1998 till 2001 (...as to be a General Secretary of School Prefects Board...), and also since I'd been a teacher, there are always other unwanted voices that can be heard beside the voice of the person who speak in front of the crowd... And today, against I can feel and see that the disappointment of the teachers especially from the senior management of the SMKA, when this situation continuously unstoppable...
Now,I can admit datz it is so hard to teach a group of people rather than to control a flock of cows... Why I say that..? As for your information, I think datz when you are getting older and older (...especially when some of you think you are better than otherz...) you are getting harder to accept or receive any else instructions or orders... As I can see lately, the students who are in Form 3 till Form 5 are the most hard group to be advised...
Actually what I really want to highlight here is about the attitude of our Muslims' students who are studying in the school datz entitled of 'Sekolah Menengah Kebangsaan Agama' or simply being imprinted as 'SMKA's STUDENTS'...!!! What had happened to them actually..?? Or what had happened to MOST of them actually...?? Some of the teachers also had significantly expressed their upset regarding the attitude's problems of their students...
There is no teacher in this world who want to see their students failed in the examinations... And as I can see, the best and the most unforgettable times for the teacher, is when their students being success in their public examinations especially UPSR, PMR, SPM and also STPM...
But the most priceless moment for a teacher is when he or she receive a news datz his or her students being a successful persons in life... And to be a successful persons, besides full of knowledge and full of informations, once also must put and give a full effort to upgrade their attitude and discipline so that the can achieve their target to be 'INSAN KAMILAH' (...the perfect person...)... I also hope and wish datz our Muslims students can be ahead of otherz especially when we are talking about attitude and discipline in every field especially in school...
posted by mizie's life @ 7/19/2009 01:18:00 AM
3 Comments:
hmm..student nowadays are very rude and disrespect with the elders. I blame the parents for one. They are not strict enough with their children & terlampau manjakan sangat.Plus they expect, its the duty of a teacher to mold the children. But then when the teacher scold or beat their children, they said teachers are not authorized to do so. too much free time to hang around is also another factor.
to me the age from 8-15y/o is very crucial. this is the time u have to set boundaries and be very strict with ur children. not abuse but let them know we mean serious matters. if u can't set them between this age, then they are a lose cannon, very destructive.
anyway, i can go on and on and on about this as i've seen people around me bring up their children..and this kids are intelligent people ;)maybe apa yg mommy diorg minum when they are in the tummy kot..tau jer la susu skarang nih mcm2 utk tumbesaran bayi and kanak2..
datz 1 thing...for me,when u da start build up da rudeness in ur life,it'll ruin u for da whole life...otherz will lost their respect to u...and i agree datz students nowadays are more rude and disrespect to otherz...
i think it's not only da job for da teachers to build up their attitude...students@child attitude start from their home...nowadays, parents must give full attention to their child...don't juz think datz ur money or ur wealthy can buy anything...yes ur wealthy can buy anything...but u must realize datz ur wealthy can buy good attitude of ur child...
but actually i would like to express my upset becoz diz matter happened to the smka's students nowadays...our Muslims students themselves cannot show off their respect to the teachers and elders...what else can we expect from them...? i'd 5 years experienced in smka during my schooltime...whether we'd some colleagues dats some sort of naughty, but they still respect teachers...we still gave our attention to da principal's speeches or other teachers' speeches...hurmmm i think if nothing been done by parents themselves, this matter will unstoppable and cannot be solved...
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